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Sensual Penis Massage
Traditional Penis Massage For Men With Premature Ejaculation
The purpose of the massage therapy is to enable your man to relax, and to receive expanded pleasure from his penis and also to delay the spilling of
his seed (ejaculation) for as long as possible. His partner (the giver) will also experience the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler
side. This massage therapy can be used as a form of safe sex and is an excellent process to build trust and intimacy. This massage can be helpful to men whom are
prone to premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and those suffering from an enlarged prostate. It is also be used to help men heal from negative sexual
conditioning and trauma.
The goal is to massage the penis, including the testicles, perineum and the G-spot, and allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From
this perspective this massage will be very relaxing for both receiver and giver.
Preparation
Take a relaxing bath or shower. Take your time and breathe deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing will take you out of your mental process and will get you more into
your feelings. Relax your belly and let go of the tension that most of us hold there.
Go to the bathroom before beginning the massage. The best results occur when the bowels and bladder are empty.
Let go of your thoughts and connect with your partner through hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other's eyes for an extended time), bringing both of you to a place of
relaxation and trust.
Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can look up at his partner (giver). Place a
pillow, covered with a towel, under his hips. His legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and his genitals clearly
exposed for the massage.
The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers' legs.
Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc., to get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to
breathe deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation.
Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil (or water-based lubricant if using latex gloves) on the shaft of the penis and testicles. Begin gently massaging the testicles, taking care
to not cause pain in this sensitive area. Massage the scrotum gently, using gentle circular motions causing it to relax. You will feel the scrotum tighten as you massage it. Massage
also the area above the penis, on the pubic bone or pubic hair area as most men will find it very sensuous. Massage also the perineum i.e. the area between the testicles and anus which
is very pleasurable to most men. Use circular motions when massaging. Take your time. You are giving a massage to an often neglected parts of your man's body.
Massage the shaft of the penis. Vary the speed and pressure. Gently squeeze the penis at the base with your right hand, pull UP and slide off and then alternate with your left hand.
Take your time doing this, right, left, right, left, etc. Then, change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the penis and then sliding DOWN and off. Again, alternate
with right and left hands.
Massage the head of the penis as if you are using an orange juicer. Massage all around the head and shaft. In tantric exercises it is believed there are many nerve endings on the penis
that correspond to other parts of the body.
NOTE:The penis may or may not go soft as you perform this technique. Do not worry if it doesn't
get hard again. You will probably find that it will get hard, then go soft, get hard again, etc., which is a highly desirable experience, like riding a wave, bobbing up and down.
Hardness and Softness are two ends of the pleasure spectrum.
If it appears that the receiver is going to ejaculate, back off, allowing the penis to soften a little before resuming the massage. Do this several times, coming close to ejaculation,
and then backing off. Remember, the goal is not orgasm in and of itself. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on
the stimulation. Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate. Eventually ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make love as long as you want and you can become
multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate. The result is less chance ofpremature
ejaculationand a very expanded sex life!
Massaging the G-Spot
Find and massage the maleG-Spot. There are two ways to do this.
One is by finding the spot midway between the testicles and anus. There is a small indentation about the size of a pea or maybe larger. Be gentle and push inward. He will feel the
pressure deep inside and it may be intensely painful at first. Eventually, as this area is worked on and softened, he will be able to expand his orgasms and master ejaculatory control.
You can massage his penis with your right hand and massage his G-Spot with your left hand. Try pushing in on this spot when he nears ejaculation and you will find him gasping in
ecstasy. It is aptly named the Million Dollar Point in Taoism.
Massaging the
Prostate
The other way to access the G-Spot is through the anus. Many men, especially heterosexual men, are uncomfortable at first as a result of negative sexual conditioning. Be careful here
and use lubrication. The key is to go slow and be very gentle. Make sure he is breathing as you slip a finger from your left hand into the anus about an inch or so. Then crook the
finger back in a "come here" gesture. You will feel the prostate gland. Vary the pressure and speed of massage. He may want stimulation of the penis as you massage the G-Spot. Back off
on the penis as he approaches orgasm and increase the pressure on the G-Spot. With experience you will find that you can make your man achieve his orgasm many times without spilling his
seed this way.
Sometimes a man may have strong emotions during access to the G-Spot. He may feel tremendous physical and emotional pleasure. You, the giver, are in a place of trust and intimacy. Allow
him to feel his emotions and be very loving, not trying to console or fix him, just let him feel whatever he needs to. Encourage him to scream, cry, moan, sob, if it feels appropriate.
Be his best friend and healer he could have in that moment.
If he chooses to let go and ejaculate, encourage him to breathe deeply during the orgasm. It will blow his mind, especially if he has
come close to orgasm and has held back at least SIX times before ejaculating. Holding back six timescharges up the sexual battery with tremendous energy. It is then his choice as to where he wants to send this energy - out with their ejaculate or inward for other uses (men who master ejaculation are able to channel this energy into other areas of their being).
When he feels complete with the massage gently remove your hands and allow him to lie there quietly. You may want to snuggle up together or you can leave the room and let him drift off
into a meditative state. Allow him to fully experience his childlike innocence and magnificent male beauty.
Have fun with this technique and share it with your friends and loved ones.
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